Very important read. It speaks so well to assumptions, expectations, and judgments – and how significantly a difference in perspective changes them, for better or for worse…
A/N: This post is raw and more of a collection of thoughts than a coherent whole. I’m posting here as a signpost to myself. It’s definitely intended to be a comprehensive commentary on the subject of independence and disability.
I. Theory, Background, Questions and Concepts
What is the relationship between being dependent and being independent? Certainly not the opposites that we assume at first glance.
There are common themes that you’ll encounter if you read enough autism parenting-related blogs and comments:
“My child is severely autistic and will never be able to live on their own.”
“My child is going to depend on me for the rest of their lives. They’ll never have the skills to live independently.”
The assumption that dependent and independent are opposing states is implicit in these types of statements. A person who lives on their own is considered independent by default; a person who needs…
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